
Here’s a revealing review from a client of mine and pretty much sums up what I hear from everyone:
I signed up for a three month membership through e-Harmony. I was sent initially several matches. Surprisingly of the ones i was slightly interested in none responded to requests for communication. Of the few that i did make initial contact with it was terribly obvious during our first date that we had no chemistry and our personalities were oil and water!
Here comes the good part. I let my subscription expire…I didn’t cancel it. I still get matches in my email even though my account is not active! Which of course makes me think..hmmm….of all the supposed matches they sent me I wonder just how many did not have an active account????
I made a very nasty phone call to e-Harmony who coughed up a free three month extension. I have gotten total squat for matches. Again the same scenario…no communication, matches that are totally out of line. I am sure that when these three months expire then I will suddenly get a few matches worth looking at in the hopes that I will renew my membership.
I plan to call and ask “What percentage of your members report a successful long term relationship after being matched by your system?” and “What percentage of us report that your service is garbage and a waste of our money”??? I would also like to know if the commercial engagements and marriages are actors or actual matches through e-Harmony?
Regardless…it is sad and unfortunate that e-Harmony is commercializing on the fact of life that we all need and want someone special to love and cherish.
Save your time/money, avoid e-Harmony and stick with top dating sites like Match and Perfect Match.






Hi, I've been a matchmaker for many years and have experience with just about every dating site out there. I have thoroughly reviewed and rated the best
I wish I had read these reviews first before even wassting 1 mo. It’s time consuming, and I also requested matches withing a 120 mi. radius and have got them from as far as 12 hrs. away. But main reason for responding was I loved Archies sense of humor for 6/9/07.
My second complaint about eHarmony !!!!!!! About three months ago I posted a complaint and now I have another !!!!
I am receiving a magazine call RADAR which I “never” ordered a subscription to. The magazine is very embarrassing for me to receive. I contacted RADAR and you will not believe who had the subscription sent to me ~ ~ eHARMONY !!!!!!! This is not the type of magazine I would expect for a “Christian” company to be associated with. But then again, eHarmony talks the talk but does not walk the walk. Just another reminder of what a huge fool I have been.
You are not what you show on TV and the Internet. I agree with the complaints made about you and I am sorry I ever joined this site. I get more responses from other dating sites than yours and they cost half as much as you require and that free profile thing is a hoax also. Dr. Warren, if you are really doing what you say you are, than do it and don’t take everyone’s money and make all those promises. I paid for my membership for 3 months and I have had only 2 responses and they were not what I expected, you promise to find someone compatible but neither of the 2 I received even gave me the curtesy of a reply. So here is another gripe letter. CDB