
Here’s a revealing review from a client of mine and pretty much sums up what I hear from everyone:
I signed up for a three month membership through e-Harmony. I was sent initially several matches. Surprisingly of the ones i was slightly interested in none responded to requests for communication. Of the few that i did make initial contact with it was terribly obvious during our first date that we had no chemistry and our personalities were oil and water!
Here comes the good part. I let my subscription expire…I didn’t cancel it. I still get matches in my email even though my account is not active! Which of course makes me think..hmmm….of all the supposed matches they sent me I wonder just how many did not have an active account????
I made a very nasty phone call to e-Harmony who coughed up a free three month extension. I have gotten total squat for matches. Again the same scenario…no communication, matches that are totally out of line. I am sure that when these three months expire then I will suddenly get a few matches worth looking at in the hopes that I will renew my membership.
I plan to call and ask “What percentage of your members report a successful long term relationship after being matched by your system?” and “What percentage of us report that your service is garbage and a waste of our money”??? I would also like to know if the commercial engagements and marriages are actors or actual matches through e-Harmony?
Regardless…it is sad and unfortunate that e-Harmony is commercializing on the fact of life that we all need and want someone special to love and cherish.
Save your time/money, avoid e-Harmony and stick with top dating sites like Match and Perfect Match.






Hi, I've been a matchmaker for many years and have experience with just about every dating site out there. I have thoroughly reviewed and rated the best
To the lonely people
Read reviews 1st. I have been a member of eharmony for about 2 weeks, but am not getting anywhere. I saw the reviews here and read them and it’s exactly what I’m experiencing. One of 3 things are happening:
1. My matches are not getting my messages
2. eharmony’s matching system is not working
3. I’m must be the most undesirable man in the US…
The following is absolutely disgusting as far as I am concerned. I was sent 25 communications in three months– four communicated. This appears as a scam and certainly does not live up to what it claims. I would suggest no one spends their money and uses this site what so ever. This is as bad as the old bait and switch.
I joined it three months ago.They are sending me such weird kind of matches.The matches are atleast 10 years older than me and I do not even feel like responding back.They took alot of money.I am stuck with them .I have not found an easy way to send them my emotions about how I feel about their site