
Here’s a revealing review from a client of mine and pretty much sums up what I hear from everyone:
I signed up for a three month membership through e-Harmony. I was sent initially several matches. Surprisingly of the ones i was slightly interested in none responded to requests for communication. Of the few that i did make initial contact with it was terribly obvious during our first date that we had no chemistry and our personalities were oil and water!
Here comes the good part. I let my subscription expire…I didn’t cancel it. I still get matches in my email even though my account is not active! Which of course makes me think..hmmm….of all the supposed matches they sent me I wonder just how many did not have an active account????
I made a very nasty phone call to e-Harmony who coughed up a free three month extension. I have gotten total squat for matches. Again the same scenario…no communication, matches that are totally out of line. I am sure that when these three months expire then I will suddenly get a few matches worth looking at in the hopes that I will renew my membership.
I plan to call and ask “What percentage of your members report a successful long term relationship after being matched by your system?” and “What percentage of us report that your service is garbage and a waste of our money”??? I would also like to know if the commercial engagements and marriages are actors or actual matches through e-Harmony?
Regardless…it is sad and unfortunate that e-Harmony is commercializing on the fact of life that we all need and want someone special to love and cherish.
Save your time/money, avoid e-Harmony and stick with top dating sites like Match and Perfect Match.






Hi, I've been a matchmaker for many years and have experience with just about every dating site out there. I have thoroughly reviewed and rated the best
E.Harmony produced the worst matches….and the very few that was a possibility never responded to my questions except to say that they “closed” the match.
this site is a complete waste of time and money.
I joined only because there was a special and even that was a complete waste!
I am now cancelling
eharmony utterly unprofessional, dishonest, expensive, and a complete waste of time. They do not fix their serious out-of-state “matching” issues after you write them a half-dozen times, yet their site is covered with pages and pages of self-important rubbish that I can assure you has no bearing whatsoever on their real operating policy, which is shameful. A scam at worst, the most unprofessional operation I’ve encountered yet at best. Avoid. Oh, and watch your wallet with these hucksters: They’ll resign you in a heartbeat, all the while blowing smoke up your skirt about how perseverence is your best friend. Sure it is, ehucksters, it keeps your ultra-expensive national ad coverage running while you operate your shell game.
I wish to cancel because I don’t like this tedious method and that I can’t pick out men myself.