Here’s a revealing review from a client of mine and pretty much sums up what I hear from everyone:
I signed up for a three month membership through e-Harmony. I was sent initially several matches. Surprisingly of the ones i was slightly interested in none responded to requests for communication. Of the few that i did make initial contact with it was terribly obvious during our first date that we had no chemistry and our personalities were oil and water!
Here comes the good part. I let my subscription expire…I didn’t cancel it. I still get matches in my email even though my account is not active! Which of course makes me think..hmmm….of all the supposed matches they sent me I wonder just how many did not have an active account????
I made a very nasty phone call to e-Harmony who coughed up a free three month extension. I have gotten total squat for matches. Again the same scenario…no communication, matches that are totally out of line. I am sure that when these three months expire then I will suddenly get a few matches worth looking at in the hopes that I will renew my membership.
I plan to call and ask “What percentage of your members report a successful long term relationship after being matched by your system?” and “What percentage of us report that your service is garbage and a waste of our money”??? I would also like to know if the commercial engagements and marriages are actors or actual matches through e-Harmony?
Regardless…it is sad and unfortunate that e-Harmony is commercializing on the fact of life that we all need and want someone special to love and cherish.
Save your time/money, avoid e-Harmony and stick with top dating sites like Match and Perfect Match.
Hi, I've been a matchmaker for many years and have experience with just about every dating site out there. I have thoroughly reviewed and rated the best
We all NEED to STOP this. THIS IS BS. I can’t believe they are toying with people’s emotions.
Had I done research and found this site prior to being a member I would have never signed up but that is all because I was trusting their ads and their long history. I was completely deceived.
I even changed my setting to get matches any where in the world and received hardly any when I did, they were out of Ghana and other places with suspicious wording and obvisously poor grammar. desperately just looking for friendship. shocker
QUESTION: Where / how do you move forward to report the site? I found consumer reports.org however, I am not too found on their privacy. Please shed some light…
Another dupe here - signed up for 6 months one week ago. I’m thinking I’ll probably cancel early. While I’ve been sent a steady stream of “matches,” the few I’ve contacted have never responded and the two who have contacted me closed the match with “other” and “I think our family backgrounds are too different.” He met my family? He knows my background? He can tell that from what I like to do on a Saturday night? What?????
I was starting to wonder about fake and/or expired profiles, so I searched the internet and here I am reading what, like so many others have said, I wish I had read before. Apparently, I’m one of many disappointed eharmony customers
Another sucker here. I paid for the whole year three hundred and some odd dollars.
I get a lot of matches that never respond and a bunch more that close me out before we communicate in any way. I think that about 60% of matches aren’t active which is bs. The one date I did go on was with a boring fraud. Haha jokes on me, thanks Eharmony and “Dr. Warren” :).