
Here’s a revealing review from a client of mine and pretty much sums up what I hear from everyone:
I signed up for a three month membership through e-Harmony. I was sent initially several matches. Surprisingly of the ones i was slightly interested in none responded to requests for communication. Of the few that i did make initial contact with it was terribly obvious during our first date that we had no chemistry and our personalities were oil and water!
Here comes the good part. I let my subscription expire…I didn’t cancel it. I still get matches in my email even though my account is not active! Which of course makes me think..hmmm….of all the supposed matches they sent me I wonder just how many did not have an active account????
I made a very nasty phone call to e-Harmony who coughed up a free three month extension. I have gotten total squat for matches. Again the same scenario…no communication, matches that are totally out of line. I am sure that when these three months expire then I will suddenly get a few matches worth looking at in the hopes that I will renew my membership.
I plan to call and ask “What percentage of your members report a successful long term relationship after being matched by your system?” and “What percentage of us report that your service is garbage and a waste of our money”??? I would also like to know if the commercial engagements and marriages are actors or actual matches through e-Harmony?
Regardless…it is sad and unfortunate that e-Harmony is commercializing on the fact of life that we all need and want someone special to love and cherish.
Save your time/money, avoid e-Harmony and stick with top dating sites like Match and Perfect Match.






Hi, I've been a matchmaker for many years and have experience with just about every dating site out there. I have thoroughly reviewed and rated the best
I absolutely agree about the disappointment with this website. For the same out of money I should have bought a very good bottle of wine and could have had a better time….
This information that I found on this website makes me worry about eHarmony. I have not subscribed yet but I am currently using its free services in order to see if I want to pay any money. I am currently receiving up to 10 matches a day that are in my area and answering those matches’ questions. Several of the matches have closed their conversation with me because there were no pictures of me available…huh. I am afraid that once I do pay money to the service that the matches will stop coming. What should I do?
What a rip off……I just ended a 3 month stint with eharmony. I got nothing. almost all my matches were out of state and I was very clear a bout not wanting to date out of my area(1.2 mil city). Of the 4-5 matches locally I could not get anyone to respond. My personality profile was very positive and claimed or hinted at how easy I would be to set up. blah blah blah
Save your money!! It is a wasted effort!