User Review #2 by James on November 28th, 2009 at 9:58 PM CST

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Eharmony=closeharmony if you are a guy and mention you are more of an introvert. I've had 100's of women close on me or not respond to requests to communicate. It don't matter how good looking you are, i've met many girls in person (not through dating sites) that were better looking than the ones that closed me out on closeharmony. Problem is none of the girls wanted a serious relationship so i've only tried closeharmony so far, big joke, with great commercials to raise false expectations. I am very good looking, have a decent paying career and even though i'm more on the quiet, introverted side i'm emotionally stable and i am a strong willed guy with lots of energy for life. A guy i worked with told me to try plenty of fish (based on what i've read here and other sites i don't know i want to go down that road now)! It seems the word introvert is equated with psychopath, weak guy or boring of which i am neither. I thought about trying another dating site but i don't think i would have any more luck on either of the top dating sites recommended by this site unless i faked my profile or leave out that i'm introverted. I think i will go back to trying to meet women in person again. I only tried closeharmony so far but for introverts like myself i have reason to believe the results will all be the same no matter which site i would chose. I am making as many posts as i can to warn other guys like me to avoid blowing their hard-earned money on any of these dating sites, if your introverted or quiet your going to get blown off, that simple.

Eharmony=closeharmony if you are a guy and mention you are more of an introvert. I've had 100's of women close on me or not respond to requests to communicate. It don't matter how good looking you are, i've met many girls in person (not through dating sites) that were better looking than the ones that closed me out on closeharmony. Problem is none of the girls wanted a serious relationship so i've only tried closeharmony so far, big joke, with great commercials to raise false expectations. I am very good looking, have a decent paying career and even though i'm more on the quiet, introverted side i'm emotionally stable and i am a strong willed guy with lots of energy for life. A guy i worked with told me to try plenty of fish (based on what i've read here and other sites i don't know i want to go down that road now)!

It seems the word introvert is equated with psychopath, weak guy or boring of which i am neither. I thought about trying another dating site but i don't think i would have any more luck on either of the top dating sites recommended by this site unless i faked my profile or leave out that i'm introverted. I think i will go back to trying to meet women in person again. I only tried closeharmony so far but for introverts like myself i have reason to believe the results will all be the same no matter which site i would chose.

I am making as many posts as i can to warn other guys like me to avoid blowing their hard-earned money on any of these dating sites, if your introverted or quiet your going to get blown off, that simple.

User Review #1 by Travis on November 23rd, 2009 at 3:10 PM CST

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I put a profile on eharmony but decided not to subscribe for two good reasons: First of all, you can't even see the photos of matches unless you pay the very high subscription fees. If I'm going to pay lots of money, I want reassurance that it will be worth it. Secondly, you can't put your subscription on hold. If you pay for a subscription and you get into a relationship, you can no longer use the service but you still have to pay for the remaining time. They need to put the option of pausing your subscription on their site.

I put a profile on eharmony but decided not to subscribe for two good reasons:

First of all, you can't even see the photos of matches unless you pay the very high subscription fees. If I'm going to pay lots of money, I want reassurance that it will be worth it.

Secondly, you can't put your subscription on hold. If you pay for a subscription and you get into a relationship, you can no longer use the service but you still have to pay for the remaining time. They need to put the option of pausing your subscription on their site.