User Review #2 by VERY satisfied user on May 21st, 2010 at 1:00 PM CDT

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As a new member of the site i was very pleased from the get go. Most men on there on genuinely good guys looking for a fun girl. Sure there is the occasional cheater but theyre few and far between. Within a week of joining i was "flirted with" but a very kind, sweet, and generous man. After a few days of talking we went on our first date...a 5 day trip to Vegas. The chemistry between us was insane. I feel like I have finally met the one for me despite the age difference. (He is 39 and Im 21) Even my friends and family have gone on the site in search of results like mine. I have never been happier and definitely recommend this for all those in search of love.

As a new member of the site i was very pleased from the get go. Most men on there on genuinely good guys looking for a fun girl. Sure there is the occasional cheater but theyre few and far between. Within a week of joining i was "flirted with" but a very kind, sweet, and generous man. After a few days of talking we went on our first date...a 5 day trip to Vegas. The chemistry between us was insane. I feel like I have finally met the one for me despite the age difference. (He is 39 and Im 21) Even my friends and family have gone on the site in search of results like mine. I have never been happier and definitely recommend this for all those in search of love.

User Review #1 by Jon on April 17th, 2010 at 1:49 PM CDT

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Having tried an assortment of internet dating sites over the years, I was intrigued when the "Established Men" ads started to appear online. I'm no millionaire, but a successful business owner of 9 years, and certainly "established". I signed up for a two-week trial, and within hours had received my first email. Unfortunately, I couldn't open the email without paying for the service (funny how that works...); so I waited to see if there might be enough interest to make the unusually high monthly fee worthwhile. Within days, I had more than a dozen emails from attractive women, some less than half my age. This was is sharp contrast to my experience with internet dating, which invariably is a candy store for women, and a frustration for men. I can tell you from personal experience that all a woman has to do is post an attractive picture and she will be bombarded with 10-15 suitors a day, but a guy rarely gets an email, and can spend hours crafting witty letters to women, of which only 10% will even bother to grace you with so much as a response - if you're lucky. At the end of my two week trial, I had no less than 32 emails waiting for me, and I concluded that (no matter what they say), this is what women are really interested in - money. So I took the leap, signed on for a premium membership, and started going through my mail. Lo and behold, more than half of the letters came from profiles that were "no longer available" or were being updated (oddly enough, this included every scantily clad and/or alluring profile in the bunch). I deleted the women who could have been my daughters, and found that the remainder were not remotely anyone I would define as a "perfect princess", as the staff at E.M. defines them. Hm. Thus began my REAL relationship with Established Men, which is now three weeks old. My profile is identical, my membership is premium. But somehow, once the payment was made, the response suddenly changed. Here's the current stats: In three weeks time, I've received emails from two women - both of whom I wrote to first, one who deleted her profile (and all available contact information) after standing me up for a drink. Of the seven emails I've sent, five remain completely UNREAD. Do these people even exist? And in three weeks time, a total of six people have even viewed my profile (which includes anyone who's attention I attracted with an email sent to them). Gentlemen, I cannot in any way accuse the Established Men business of false advertising - I have absolutely no hard core evidence to support that. But I can report my actual experience honestly, let you judge for yourself, and seriously recommend that you don't be fooled by all the attention you think you are getting in your free trial. Once your money is spent (and remember, there are NO REFUNDS FOR ANY REASON) it is LIKELY that everything will change, and you will be very disappointed with the results. Don't be fooled, like me.

Having tried an assortment of internet dating sites over the years, I was intrigued when the "Established Men" ads started to appear online. I'm no millionaire, but a successful business owner of 9 years, and certainly "established".

I signed up for a two-week trial, and within hours had received my first email. Unfortunately, I couldn't open the email without paying for the service (funny how that works...); so I waited to see if there might be enough interest to make the unusually high monthly fee worthwhile. Within days, I had more than a dozen emails from attractive women, some less than half my age. This was is sharp contrast to my experience with internet dating, which invariably is a candy store for women, and a frustration for men. I can tell you from personal experience that all a woman has to do is post an attractive picture and she will be bombarded with 10-15 suitors a day, but a guy rarely gets an email, and can spend hours crafting witty letters to women, of which only 10% will even bother to grace you with so much as a response - if you're lucky.

At the end of my two week trial, I had no less than 32 emails waiting for me, and I concluded that (no matter what they say), this is what women are really interested in - money. So I took the leap, signed on for a premium membership, and started going through my mail. Lo and behold, more than half of the letters came from profiles that were "no longer available" or were being updated (oddly enough, this included every scantily clad and/or alluring profile in the bunch). I deleted the women who could have been my daughters, and found that the remainder were not remotely anyone I would define as a "perfect princess", as the staff at E.M. defines them. Hm.

Thus began my REAL relationship with Established Men, which is now three weeks old. My profile is identical, my membership is premium. But somehow, once the payment was made, the response suddenly changed. Here's the current stats:

In three weeks time, I've received emails from two women - both of whom I wrote to first, one who deleted her profile (and all available contact information) after standing me up for a drink. Of the seven emails I've sent, five remain completely UNREAD. Do these people even exist? And in three weeks time, a total of six people have even viewed my profile (which includes anyone who's attention I attracted with an email sent to them).

Gentlemen, I cannot in any way accuse the Established Men business of false advertising - I have absolutely no hard core evidence to support that. But I can report my actual experience honestly, let you judge for yourself, and seriously recommend that you don't be fooled by all the attention you think you are getting in your free trial. Once your money is spent (and remember, there are NO REFUNDS FOR ANY REASON) it is LIKELY that everything will change, and you will be very disappointed with the results. Don't be fooled, like me.